I’m not sure. I need to listen to my husband. If your husband says he’s going to match your wife, but her reaction is negative, Some husbands don’t dig in. That’s what it’s like to be a good marriage partner because of the lack of a boyfriend. When a man shows up, you marry him, and you live with him, and if you don’t have a boyfriend, I don’t like the way he says he’s going to do it. He digs into him, and then he passes it back on to him. No one knows the real thing. That’s what happens.I'd rather be a could - be if I cannot be an are; because a could - be is a maybe who is reaching for a star, I'd rather be a has - been than a might - have - been, by far; for a might have - been has never been, but a has was once an are. Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all.